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The cause of death is birth....
Tokyo crime reporter Jake Adelstein wrote a short story in The Shambhala Sun magazine this month and I'd like to print a few paragraphs of that story. In a recent post on Women Who Dance With Frogs there was discussion about the way many of us deal with despair and/or the heavy emotional load so many carry today. Mr. Adelsteins story demonstrates the way one Japanese couple handled their lives............................................................................
On a weekend in July, the bodies of Mr. and Mrs. Akutagawa were found in their apartment, He was sixty-two and she was fifty-nine. It looked like what the Japanese call a murishinju. In medieval times, shinju meant the suicide pact between lovers. Muri means unreasonable.
They had drunk poison. The husband had boiled a pack of cigarettes, either Peace or Hope brand, in some alcohol and water. There is enough nicotine in a pack of smokes to kill you if you distill and drink it. She'd died first and he died shortly afterward.
The Assistant police chief told me, "He was a faithful salary man that had gone through a company restructuring............... It happens like that, a guy gets put into a situation where, even when living a relatively simple life, he can't save enough to repay bills and loans".
I tried to flesh out a story by finding people that knew Mr. Akutagawa, but no one did................ he was practically invisible.
The apartment manager... "I didn't have a personal relationship"...............
Another resident... "We were living in the same apartment building, but I never got to know him"..................
The pub owner next door... "I'm not familiar with the man".....................
It's amazing to me that people can live in an apartment complex right next to each other for years and not know each other at all, not even in passing. This was the case with the Akutagawa family. They had no friends; they had no social life or interaction with the neighbors. Mr. Akutagawa lost his job, they ran out of money, and they made a suicide pact. A lot of Japanese people hate to ask others for help--- even close friends. That was the whole story.
I went back to the police station......the Akutagawas had left a note. The note said simply, "Don't worry about us. We've been dead a long time. Sorry, we didn't clean up before we left. We didn't have the energy".
Very Japanese, very apologetic.
I asked when and where the funeral would be held, but the police said no one had claimed the bodies. They were muenbotoke, literally "Buddhas without connections." There was no one to mourn for them. There was no one that would miss them, pine for them. At least not in Tokyo. There would be an ad put in the paper, and if no one came forward, the cremated ashes would be taken to a temple on the outskirts of the megalopolis.
Two weeks later............ A priest took me to where the ashes of Mr. and Mrs. Akutagawa were stored. I lit a stick of incense, put my hands together, mumbled the only Buddhist prayer I could remember and left.
By now, the ashes of the Akutagawas have probably been evicted or displaced by the ashes of other muenbotoke. This happens. When family members don't pay the upkeep fees on
gravestones and burial plots in Japan, the remains are moved and new tenants are sought. Even the dead can only rent in Tokyo.
I think I'll still visit the temple this summer anyway and pay my respects to the Akutagawas before even the memory of their memory is gone. It seems like the least I can do. Everyone needs someone to mourn them. I hope when my time comes there's someone who will do the same for me. I can't tell you why that's even important to me, but it is.
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I guess I know why those last lines mean so much to me personally..... Sometimes the price one pays for the way a life is lived isn't obvious until near the end.
And so it goes
Today I do love you all, brinda
Namaste
नमस्ते
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I would imagine that most people that have spent enough time around the Internet understand that one of the downsides involved is that there are some dangers.
While most of the dangers are monetary... Bank accounts, Identity theft, Credit card charges,
dangerous links that can cost you a trip to a computer repair specialist ( or a "factory restore") w/the loss of data), there are instances of actual physical harm coming from the rare occasion of a nut job coming to your door.
Long before I ever had a PC I knew that rule about we have a choice about what information we put on the Internet...but once that information is out, it's there... permanently.
Now I would imagine that most everyone understands that every website we visit "sees" our IP address... that's how the website "knows" where to return the data we've requested.
Likely all bloggers use a program that tells us a lot about our visitors... We use that information to keep track of how many visitors we have as well as a few other things, such as how you found us, where you went after you looked at our blogs, where you come from in the world, the time of day, your service provider...... and yes, your IP address.
Now please keep in mind that your IP address does not exactly locate you, mine shows me as Santee California, that's 51 kms away.
Your service provider of course does know your location exactly, but that information requires a court order to access. Having said all of that, I still respect all IP addresses as personal and wouldn't post those just because that information is no ones business and I understand that
there are people that just don't want that info released no matter how innocuous it may be.
Here's where I'm heading with all this. For well over a year or so I have been aware of a system that detected copybot viewers.
Some months ago another item went for sale here in Secondlife called RedZone.
Redzone is advertised as a way to detect both copybot viewers and............any alts that someone may have. There are a couple of problems... first, RedZone just matches IP addresses.
Go to your local Starbucks free WiFI and log in... everyone that logs in there is your "alt" (same IP).
Second, there are those that are using RedZone to effectively "out" alts as well as collecting information on what places you visit in Secondlife.
All that is bad enough but.... Redzone is keeping a database of all this information and sharing it.
The RedZone program exploits your choice to enable streaming media... it's not your choice to provide your IP address, RedZone takes that info.
I realize that many of you may not take the time to read JIRAs... the Secondlife bug trackers, but I encourage all of you to educate yourself about this.
So far The Benevolent Monarchy has done virtualy nothing to put a stop to this.
As you will see in the links below this can and will have far reaching consequences for our world. Send Linden Lab a letter, Linden Lab, 945 Battery Street, San Francisco, CA 94111 Ask them to put a stop to RedZone and programs like it.
Here's a link to the JIRA its self. https://jira.secondlife.com/browse/VWR-24746
And Ann Otoole has a very good post on this subject here.
Her post will also give you a link to the Alphaville Herald.
And so it goes
My love to you all, brinda
Namaste
नमस्ते
